It’s January, and we are all thinking about the New Year and all the things we want to accomplish. What do we want our lives to look like by the end of the year? But sometimes there are things in our lives we cannot change, and that can cause bitterness…but it should not. How can we better handle it?
My thoughts turn back to Advent, to Mary. I wonder at her willingness for the Lord to use her however he wanted. She consented to becoming a single mother–something with the potential to ruin all her dreams for the future. She did not caveat her obedience and faith on any conditions–like that she would no have embarrassment or that everyone would believe the miracle immediately or that her image would not be ruined or that her life would be easy. She just accepted it.
I struggle with questioning the lot God gave me in life: “Why me”, “If I have to do this, why didn’t you give me ____ to make it more bearable?” Looking at Mary, I cringe–nothing in my life has really made a huge impact on my future compared to having a baby sooner than I anticipated. She is an encouragement to me to accept the struggles in life God gives me and trust that he will provide for me. In the end, God did make sure Mary had a husband with which to walk through the unexpected. He protected her and Jesus from Herod. He provided her with a caretaker when Jesus died. Likewise, God will provide support for me too. However, it is up to me to accept the challenges he sends me in life and trust him always.